Those two words, “call me,” can blow your mind. If you like the guy, of course you want to believe that this means that he is interested in you and he really wants you to call him. You may be thinking that he wants you to call him so he can set up a date. Call me is what guys usually say when they end a conversation. It’s pretty much the same as talking to you later or seeing you around. It’s usually said casually and you can bet that if a guy says this, it doesn’t pique his interest. Then what do you do? Should you call a guy if he asks you?
When a boy says call me, usually means he might find you attractive and if you call he can talk to you, but it’s not something a guy would say to a girl he’s really interested in. If a guy is really interested, he won’t ask you to call him, he’ll call you. The only exception to this is if you have been dating for a while and he asks you to call him. However, if you just met or started dating, he is far from hooked on you just yet.
Many women take this “call me” literally. They hook up and start calling the guy. This makes them the ones to chase. It tells the guy that you are much more interested in him than he is in you. She sees a woman ready to put on her bridal crown, and often this causes her to cut off contact and run off into the hills.
When a guy says call me, what he usually wants from you is not much. He can live with or without your call. If you call, you will put yourself as a girl in the background. That’s what guys do with girls who make the call for the most part. They don’t see them as a challenge and no challenge means you won’t more than likely be girlfriend material.
If a guy really wants to meet you, he will be the one to call, he will not ask you to call him. When a guy tells you to call him, the best thing you can do is not to. Let him wonder why you don’t like him so much. This makes you more challenging and more attractive in their eyes. Less is more when it comes to calling men.