The meeting…
The attraction…
The act of falling in love…
Lust…
The courtship…
The relationship begins…
He seems perfect…
She looks perfect…
Both partners start with a clean slate…

I didn’t change…you just never met me…this is a state that many relationships don’t see coming…they watch over who is the person they want and who is the person, really to find that perfect someone.

Why is that?
Who do we blame?
Do we blame the fairy tales… do we blame the media, thinking that our search for a true mate is not complete until we find that perfect person…?
Do we even know who that perfect someone is?

I have written several times about finding someone who is perfect for you throughout my previous articles, because it is one of the most important realizations that you must have when choosing a partner.

It’s no secret that when you meet someone new and exciting, you tend to see through blinders. Those blinders are the ones that will certainly cloud your vision, which in turn will totally blur your judgment of who that person really is. This is also interpreted as, ‘We only see, what or whom, we want to see, or what I take to be, ‘the stage of the masks’.

In fact, you want to be on your best behavior at the beginning of any new relationship and yes, the new feeling of attraction is so perfect that you don’t want to risk losing it by being your ‘true self’. Your subconscious tends to play hide and seek with what you choose to accept in this new person.

At this point, it’s vital to realize if he or she is perfect for you because you want to see it that way or because he or she is actually perfect for you.

‘Patience is a virtue’ a proverbial phrase that says a lot in just 4 words. These words are the pillars on which the foundations of your new relationship must be built.

If you take your time getting to know this new person you have allowed into your life and if you allow the relationship to evolve and grow naturally, you won’t find yourself stuck in the stages of “I didn’t change, I just never knew me.”

I have yet to read anywhere that there is any time limitation on committing to a new relationship… knowing yourself, then and only then can you truly understand the importance of meeting that new person in your life.

~Time is not of the essence to meet someone new, patience is~