Greetings fellow Pickup and Social Artists.
I’ll answer the questions above and help you prepare for the festive season. After all, everyone’s out to celebrate and no one to play with – we can’t have that now right!
At bootcamps we get asked the same questions all the time, one of them: “What are the best workouts?” Mystery would say “with great delivery and a good Vibe you can say anything” and I agree 100%. Of course, you need to get a great delivery and have enough experience with Flame and Ghost Vibe to pull it off. But if you’re just starting out or want to go back to basics, what should you use?
Just looking at my mind map right now, I currently have 158 polished routines. Do I use them all? NO! – I just used the routines as a goal to polish my execution and, truth be told, while I was new to the game, to help me focus on the execution of the Gambit and not the responses I was getting from the women (yeah, they weren’t always great lol).
So let me help you weed out a bunch of junk and bad advice so you can start experiencing some rewards and start enjoying this wonderful ‘Game’ of social interaction (no, you can’t ask Santa to deliver it to you on December 25th either)!
Going back to that question; “What are the best Routines?”
Let’s put it this way, let’s say you want to start bodybuilding and increase your size and muscle and you bumped into Ol Arny (Arnold Schwarzeneggar) while visiting California, you couldn’t resist right? – “Hey Arny, what routine are you using to look as good as you do?” -His answer could be… “Split training 5 times a week, 2 jogs and 3 cardio machines for 1 hour, combined with cabbage diet, low carbs and lean meats.” MISTAKEN!!!!! – what you got was – What is working for him now! Remember you are just starting out, so you should be asking yourself…yes, got it…”What did you use to START?”…NOT “what is a good micro-calibrated opener, or when should I DLV in qualifying?” Instead of asking…”Dude, what routines did you use to get started and get some results?”.
So right now, I’m going to show you some examples of mini-stacks that many Master PUAs have used to get going. We use mini Stack Cards with an example on the front and a place for you to write your own on the back; for now, you can write this down on a piece of paper or even in a text message to yourself (great to throw out in the middle of a conversation [disinterest] check, laugh and return to the conversation)
Basic starter stack, example 1
Open (A1)
“Hey guys, how long should you wait before you change your Facebook status to single”?
fake time constraint
“I can only stay a moment”
negative (target)
“Does it have an off button? (role eyes and smile)
Observation (A2)**
(You look like you’re about to walk away and then you notice something)
“Wow, you guys have been friends for a while, right! – [Girl Coding Routine]
Exit
That’s it, just to get them talking, don’t forget a fun and playful attitude and atmosphere, if you then have to go out, just say, “Okay guys, that’s all you get, so I can’t be rude to my friends.” Smile and go out.
Basic initial stack, example 2
Open (A1)
“Breast enlargements, yes or no?”
fake time constraint
“Hey, real quick since my friends and I are celebrating [open loop]”
Opener (A1) continued.
“Would you tell your good friend that his girlfriend was planning to get a boob job for her birthday (pause) if you knew she wouldn’t like it?”
negative (target)
“OMG, ADD Girl (role eyes and smile) talk to me again”
Part of the opening story (A1).
“The thing is, her twin sister just had hers done. Do you think she’s really doing it for her or for him…I mean, would a girl really go under the knife just to be competitive with another girl?”
[this is an example of a phased opinion opener that drips intrigue with each phase – you have to have a friendly vibe to pull this one off – all in the delivery]
Challenge (A2)**
(You look like you’re about to walk away and then you notice something)
“You know you sound like you might be a good liar, let’s find out!” – [Lying Game/5 Questions]
Exit
“I have to meet my friends. Nice to meet you. Come by and say hi later!” smile and go out
So there you have it, 2 simple Stack systems to get you moving. In the next article, I’ll share with you an intermediate stack, including the use of DHV and qualifiers.
As always Gentlemen, it has been a pleasure to share with you. Have a great weekend.
**Note: although A2, observations, challenges, humorous stories keep you on set and prove your value as an interesting guy, they are simply ‘buying temperature’ and NOT core DHV: demonstrations of HIGHER value (of an evolutionary nature that flips switches on unconscious psychological attractions (discussed in other articles).