Here’s the big question: How do you know if the woman you want to take to bed wants to go with you? Is there an angle of approach that doesn’t make you look like the “typical guy” or doesn’t make her feel like she has to be upset? You don’t want to seem like a bad boy who’s just looking for sex, but you know you want to sleep with this woman you’ve been seeing. Again, how do you know she wants it? The key to solving this is time. Get your timing right, and everything else will fall into place. What follows here is an inside look at the surest signs that she is ready to fall in love with you.
When Your Body Speaks…
Understanding body language is an effective tool in many areas. In this case, it is crucial if you want to get that lady into your bed. Pay attention to how she is around you. If she likes you to touch her and she is not shy about touching you frequently, this is a good sign for you. Her body will give other clues, like if she licks her lips during a conversation. If she’s just giving you light touches, like on her arm, or she doesn’t do much more than hold your hand, she avoids advances. Pay close attention to how she reacts when you touch her and recognize when she is touching you in that playful way.
A kiss can say it all
If you are in tune with the lady of your choice, the way she kisses you can say as much as her words. If she is very passionate in her kisses, her tongue moving deep while her hands are busy on your body, chances are she is ready to give you that hot loving action.
The Direct Approach
For women, this is the boldest move they can make, as well as the most vulnerable for them. If her woman brings up the subject of sex (she’ll be on the lookout for clues), then she’s putting herself out there, letting you know that she wants sex if you do it. This is the time to act. For a woman to bring up the subject of sex, she has taken courageous steps and probably practiced bringing it up before she did. Vulnerability comes into play because if you don’t pick up on her hints or say no, she’ll feel the snap of rejection. She is likely to be very embarrassed, just as you would be if you brought up the subject of sex and she turned you down. Therefore, she pays attention to the signals that her body gives off and her kisses, as this could tell you as much or more than the words that she is ready to have sex with you or if she needs more time. Once I’m sure, it’s her turn, brother. If you want to know more about this or other dating topics, don’t hesitate to ask. I will answer your questions and help alleviate any doubts you may have.