How you prepare to give oral sex (give a boy blowjob or suck a girl and give her cunnilingus) for the first time will have a big influence on whether you find the experience fun and enjoyable, or horrible and disgusting.
Let’s deal with blowjobs first. Here are some tips to get used to the idea of giving a guy head before performing the actual blow job.
Watch some adult movies. To get a good idea of what is expected of giving a guy head, get yourself some adult movies that are geared towards blowjobs. Believe it or not, the best are from the gay range. The reason for observing how gay men engage in oral sex is simple: they are full of enthusiasm and just looking at them shows that they love doing it. For some first-time girls who have never had a man’s penis in their mouth, this can be a real eye-opener.
Practice with a banana, carrot, or other phallic object. Select an object that is at least five to six inches long and has a slight girth. There’s a huge chance that you haven’t even seen your man’s penis (unless you’ve already given him a handjob or two), so you might be surprised. If your manhood is bigger than this, don’t worry, you don’t need to go the full length down your throat.
However, some women, to their own surprise, discover a talent for deep throat. This knowledge usually comes as your experience with oral sex increases. The main reason for practicing with objects first is to assess what kind of gag reaction (reflex) you will have. If you’re easily gagging, then you’re not giving very deep blowjobs, at least as long as you’re a beginner.
Also be prepared for the following. Your boy’s penis may have a slight odor, which is normal. If it is too much to bear, you may need to ask it to wash. Don’t be embarrassed to ask, because if he wants blowjob enough, he will literally run to the bathroom.
If you are concerned about the taste and texture of the semen, tell your man beforehand to give you a warning before he comes. If you are adventurous and want to try it, give it a try. But have a tissue, rag, or towel handy, and also some water to rinse in case it accidentally gets into your mouth when you asked not to, too. The taste and texture may not be to your liking. People are different when it comes to how they treat a man’s sperm, there is nothing right or wrong here.
Cunnilingus – Oral Sex for Women
The taste of a woman’s vagina is different from that of a man’s penis. For starters, it is constantly wet (usually) and secretes fluids. When you put your mouth in a vagina for the first time, it can be a huge shock.
As with men, don’t be afraid to tell your woman if her genitals need a quick wash. If you like to be eaten, you will be pleased. Unlike men, the chances of your girl ejaculating in your mouth are much lower, although it cannot be ruled out. Just prepare for might happen.
Also, take a look at some lesbian adult movies to get an idea of what you might like to try when you have oral sex with a woman. There are a million techniques, but the main thing to remember is: pay attention to all its parts – The clitoris, the lips, even inserting the tongue inside can be pleasant for the one who gives it and the one who receives it. Licking a woman’s urethra shortly after she has urinated can also give her a mild taste, so be prepared for that.
Finally, with cunnilingus, your partner may or may not be shaved. If you shave, your vaginal odor is usually softer (but not always), and you can also enter the entire area much more easily to give you all the oral pleasure you deserve.
With oral sex for both men and women, the main thing is to be patient, attentive and aware, savoring that body fluids is your maximum reward for breastfeeding well.