A woman needs to be able to fully relax if she is going to orgasm from cunnilingus. Put another way, if making her come is your number one goal, then her ability to relax far outweighs any jaw or neck discomfort you may have to deal with. When the question arises of “what is the best position” to give a woman oral sex, the answer is surprisingly simple: In her back.
Well what about 69, doggy style or face sitting?
All 3 are great intercourse positions and can be good for oral sex if you want to break up the monotony and mix things up for a few minutes, but in the end they just aren’t enough. Because? It was summed up in our first statement. A woman needs to be able to fully relax if she is going to reach orgasm through cunnilingus. This means that she must be able to let go and relinquish all control. She needs to be able to focus her energy on receiving the pleasure you are giving her.
Now is the time for him to be a little selfish because his mind can’t be distracted by anything, including:
Give you pleasure (position 69).
Any shy thoughts about her body or how close your nose is to her butt (doggy style). It sounds funny, but it happens.
ยท Worrying about who is more dominant or in control right now or if they are hurting you. (face sitting).
Variations:
Now, just because she stays on her back doesn’t mean it has to be boring for her or painful for you. Many women say that they like to have something under them that lifts them up. Try using a wedge or pillow to achieve this effect. It will give you better access and allow more movement.
Another variation you can try is to keep her on her back but position her so that she is on the edge of the bed and you are kneeling at her sweet spot. A lot of guys really like this one because it’s more convenient overall and easier for them to bend over and touch.